Welcome to In Heaven Commitments:
Hawaii Gay Weddings and Civil Union Ceremonies
Hawaii destination wedding services specializing in LGBT weddings in Hawaii. We lovingly offer Hawaii gay weddings, Hawaii lesbian weddings and civil union services for the LGBT community in beautiful natural settings on the islands of Kauai and Oahu, Hawaii.



We’ve come to appreciate the power of ceremony to amplify and strengthen the bond in a committed partnership. Every time we participate in a celebration of two loving beings declaring their vows, our own hearts are touched and uplifted - the very air is filled with joy, mystery and tenderness.
We respect and uphold the commitment between all loving couples including gay and lesbian civil unions. We would be honored and delighted to help you plan, celebrate and document your sacred union in paradise.
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We offer everything you need to enjoy your perfect Hawaiian Gay Wedding Day:
In Heaven Hawaii Gay Wedding Packages and Civil Union Ceremonies from a simple barefoot-on-the-beach wedding to an exquisite wedding and reception
Creative Hawaii Gay Wedding and Civil Union Ceremonies honoring your own spiritual traditions
Pre-wedding counseling
Hawaii Gay Wedding and Civil Union Planning
Hawaii Wedding Photography in a photojournalistic style with relaxed formal poses as desired
Fully edited Hawaiian Wedding Videography
Hawaii Wedding Music including Hawaiian singer, Slack-key guitar, Harp and Flute, Hawaiian Hula and the blowing of the conch
Hawaiian Wedding Flowers from leis and bouquets to flower-strewn pathways
Casual Hawaii Beach Receptions
Romantic Hawaii Gay Wedding Excursions for Two



Some Hawaiian Wedding Traditions we offer:
The blowing of the conch heralds the coming of the brides or grooms.
A Hawaiian chant invokes the mana and honors the aina and the ancestors.
A lei exchange between brides or grooms signifies their aloha for each other.
Ancient hula and chant asks for the support and presence of the spirit of aloha in your marriage or sacred union.
A wedding pule in Hawaiian and English asks for the grace and blessing of Akua at the beginning of your civil union or marriage.
A ceremony of Ho'o ponopono releases the past and invites a gentle goodwill and abiding devotion into your married life.
The rings are blessed with ti leaf and ocean water held in a native koa bowl.
A circle of blessing of the ohana ends with a ho'pe lo'a pule (final blessing).
We also enjoy performing vow renewals, ceremonies of reconciliation and release, blessing ceremonies, and consecration ceremonies.
If you would like our assistance in coordinating your gay wedding or civil union or in finding a great photographer, let us know! We have contacts for everything your wedding requires here on Kauai and Oahu.


We are honored to have wonderful photographers whose candid, natural wedding photos delight our couples, their families and friends. The gentle island spirit lends itself beautifully to the photojournalistic style which all of our photographers use. In addition to the many free, spontaneous images, they are happy to take portraits and group shots as desired.
Click here to inquire about or to reserve our services.
When you contact us at In Heaven Commitments you will be speaking or e-mailing with Stacy Mallory.
Stacy is warm and fun-loving as well as having lots of experience in arranging weddings on Kauai and Oahu. With her educational background in hospitality and tourism, she is the perfect person to answer questions and help you fulfill your wedding vision.
To reserve your wedding date, use our information request form here.
You can also reach us by phone at: (808) 639-3202 or Email In Heaven Commitments.
We look forward to hearing from you!


